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Helen  Williford's avatar

I tried helping a little girl in foster care. What all I went thru trying to get her help all the way to right before the governor . They need to reevaluate the system . Everyone says they want to help .. but do they really ? Thank you Lord she finally got removed from the home . Now the foster parent has two more children . Someone from the court house came to me and told me the foster parent was being rude and ugly to the children as well as to them . System talks about protecting children. Really ? Dealing with kids that have been abused by family , foster parents and then the system ? Crazy . I don’t get it .

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Michaela Ullrich's avatar

As long as Dfcs and their adjacent departments, especially OPM who oversees and governs the placement agencies for foster children with their out of touch policies, I see little hope for all of the children being send to RCT.

One of my foster daughters is extremely mentally challenged and I was not able to keep her in my home because of insufficient support and threats to remove all children in my care. At this point we were already on path of adoption.

When I was told that they would rather accept the child die while running into traffic when having a meltdown than me holding her back, all reasoning was off.

My kiddo was placed into a RCT for almost 6 month. I visited her once, because I was the one telling her she would not be able to come home, since none of the therapists or caseworkers had the guts to do so. I was shocked in what condition I found her at. She had gained about 15 lbs within 4 month, her clothes were dirty, she smelled and you could tell her teeth were not brushed in a while.

I was told I would have to take her back as a foster not adoptive placement for at least 6 month. This would have never worked, with her siblings already adopted carrying my name. There was no option and support that I could adopt her.

She has been placed in two different homes within three month of discharge from RCT, with the same issues. And I agree that treatment plans at discharge,and we had a few from the two major hospitals in Atlanta, are ridiculous to say the least.

What bothers me the most is that DFcs, children’s attorneys, CASA and medical professionals agree that the policies in place are absurd and children in foster care get denied the chance of a stable home, but I don’t see a lot of effort to get this right.

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